{"id":6813,"date":"2026-09-11T22:57:21","date_gmt":"2026-09-11T22:57:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebspaces.com\/?p=6813"},"modified":"2026-09-11T22:57:21","modified_gmt":"2026-09-11T22:57:21","slug":"my-72-year-old-dad-thought-we-were-going-fishing-like-old-times-at-the-marina-the-captain-saw-him-and-asked-he-really-doesnt-know","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebspaces.com\/?p=6813","title":{"rendered":"My 72-Year-Old Dad Thought We Were Going Fishing Like Old Times \u2013 At the Marina, the Captain Saw Him and Asked, &#8216;He Really Doesn&#8217;t Know?&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My 72-year-old dad thought I was taking him fishing like we did when I was a kid. But the moment we reached the marina, the captain stared at Dad, pulled me aside, and lowered his voice. \u201cHe really doesn\u2019t know?\u201d I thought he meant my surprise. I was wrong.<\/p>\n<p>My dad is 72, and until last month, I thought one of his biggest regrets was never being able to take me on a &#8220;real&#8221; fishing trip when I was a kid.<\/p>\n<p>I was wrong.<\/p>\n<p>We didn&#8217;t have much money growing up.<\/p>\n<p>Other kids came back from summer break talking about amusement parks and beach hotels.<\/p>\n<p>We didn&#8217;t have much money growing up.<\/p>\n<p>Our vacations were day trips, and most of my clothes had belonged to somebody else&#8217;s kid first.<\/p>\n<p>But I never thought of my childhood as unhappy.<\/p>\n<p>A lot of that was because of Dad.<\/p>\n<p>He worked maintenance for a manufacturing plant.<\/p>\n<p>Some weeks he left before I woke up and came home after dinner with grease under his nails and a stiffness in his back that made him lower himself into a chair like an old man, even though he was barely forty.<\/p>\n<p>But I never thought of my childhood as unhappy.<\/p>\n<p>Still, on certain Saturday mornings, he&#8217;d wake me before sunrise.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Get up.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d roll over and bury my face in the pillow.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Five more minutes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Nope.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Dad&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>On certain Saturday mornings, he&#8217;d wake me before sunrise.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The fish don&#8217;t sleep in.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;How do you know?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Because they have jobs.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That never made sense, but I was eight, so I accepted it.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;d pack peanut butter sandwiches, two cans of soda, and whatever chips were cheapest that week.<\/p>\n<p>That never made sense, but I was eight, so I accepted it.<\/p>\n<p>Then we&#8217;d load his old fishing rods into our station wagon and drive to a lake about forty minutes away.<\/p>\n<p>There was a marina there with actual fishing boats lined up at the docks.<\/p>\n<p>We never used them.<\/p>\n<p>Dad and I would walk past the marina and follow a dirt path until we reached a spot along the bank beneath two huge oak trees.<\/p>\n<p>We never used them.<\/p>\n<p>That was our place.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;d unfold two battered lawn chairs, hand me a rod, and say, &#8220;All right. Let&#8217;s see if you&#8217;ve improved since last week.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I caught more than you last week.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You caught a branch.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;All right. Let&#8217;s see if you&#8217;ve improved since last week.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It was heavy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Strong branch.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I loved those mornings \u2014 the cold air, the mist over the water, sandwiches at seven because Dad said fishing had different meal rules.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes he&#8217;d point toward the far side of the lake.<\/p>\n<p>I loved those mornings<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat&#8217;s where the good fishing is,\u201d he&#8217;d say. \u201cOut past the northern point.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCan we go?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou need a boat.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo let&#8217;s get one.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;d laugh. \u201cGood plan. You buying?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t understand the joke then.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat&#8217;s where the good fishing is,\u201d he&#8217;d say. \u201cOut past the northern point.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Eventually I did.<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>More than thirty years passed.<\/p>\n<p>Dad retired, I built a life of my own, and somehow I became the age he&#8217;d been in most of my childhood memories.<\/p>\n<p>We still saw each other regularly, but we hadn&#8217;t gone fishing together in years.<\/p>\n<p>Then, about two months ago, I found something online that brought those mornings rushing back.<\/p>\n<p>Somehow I became the age he&#8217;d been in most of my childhood memories.<\/p>\n<p>It wasn&#8217;t cheap.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, it probably cost more than Dad had spent on all our childhood fishing trips combined.<\/p>\n<p>I booked it anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Then I called him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKeep Saturday free.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I booked it anyway.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI&#8217;m taking you fishing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Another pause, but this one felt different.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Fishing?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yeah.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He laughed softly. &#8220;Like old times?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Exactly.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI&#8217;m taking you fishing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He sounded younger when he said, &#8220;All right. I&#8217;ll find my hat.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p>Saturday morning, I picked him up before sunrise.<\/p>\n<p>Sure enough, he came outside wearing the same ugly green fishing hat he&#8217;d owned since I was a kid.<\/p>\n<p>I stared at it.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;How is that thing still alive?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Saturday morning, I picked him up before sunrise.<\/p>\n<p>Dad climbed into the passenger seat. &#8220;Quality workmanship. They don&#8217;t make things like they used to.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It has three holes in it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ventilation.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It smells like a garage.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Character.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Then he slapped my dashboard.<\/p>\n<p>Dad climbed into the passenger seat.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Let&#8217;s go.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>For most of the drive, he told stories I&#8217;d heard a hundred times.<\/p>\n<p>The time I dropped his tackle box in the lake.<\/p>\n<p>The morning I insisted a turtle was stalking us.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It was following me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It was sitting on a log.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>For most of the drive, he told stories I&#8217;d heard a hundred times.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;For twenty minutes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Turtles are patient.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dad laughed so hard he started coughing.<\/p>\n<p>I remember looking over at him under the passing streetlights and realizing how much older he&#8217;d gotten.<\/p>\n<p>His hands looked thinner.<\/p>\n<p>Dad laughed so hard he started coughing.<\/p>\n<p>His shoulders had curved slightly.<\/p>\n<p>For some reason, I felt a pressure in my chest.<\/p>\n<p>I wanted the day to be perfect.<\/p>\n<p>I wanted to give something back.<\/p>\n<p>When I turned into the marina parking lot, Dad&#8217;s smile faded.<\/p>\n<p>He looked out the windshield.<\/p>\n<p>I wanted the day to be perfect.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This isn&#8217;t where we parked.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Our spot is around the other side.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He looked at me.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What are you doing?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This isn&#8217;t where we parked.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Just come on.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He narrowed his eyes.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What did you do?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Dad, would you stop?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s a surprise, okay?&#8221; I got out.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Dad, would you stop?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He followed me, muttering something I couldn&#8217;t hear.<\/p>\n<p>The docks were quiet in the early morning. The sky had started turning pale blue over the lake.<\/p>\n<p>A man in his late fifties stood beside a white fishing boat, checking equipment.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Daniel?&#8221; he called.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He followed me, muttering something I couldn&#8217;t hear.<\/p>\n<p>He smiled and walked over.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m Rick.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We shook hands.<\/p>\n<p>Then Rick looked at my father.<\/p>\n<p>His eyes moved to Dad&#8217;s battered green fishing hat.<\/p>\n<p>For a second, his expression changed.<\/p>\n<p>Then Rick looked at my father.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSir,\u201d he said slowly. \u201cHave you been coming to this lake a long time?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad glanced at him. \u201cUsed to. Long time ago.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rick kept staring at the hat.<\/p>\n<p>Then at Dad.<\/p>\n<p>Dad didn&#8217;t seem to notice. He&#8217;d turned toward the boat.<\/p>\n<p>Rick kept staring at the hat.<\/p>\n<p>Rick caught my eye.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cExcuse me a second.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He pulled me a few steps away and lowered his voice.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe really doesn&#8217;t know?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I grinned.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe really doesn&#8217;t know?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rick glanced back at Dad.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWow.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI&#8217;ve been keeping it from him for weeks.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rick looked at me strangely.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI&#8217;ve been keeping it from him for weeks.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKeeping what from him?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe charter,\u201d I said. \u201cHe thinks we&#8217;re just going fishing like we used to.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rick&#8217;s face relaxed slightly.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOh.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat did you mean?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNothing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe thinks we&#8217;re just going fishing like we used to.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat didn&#8217;t sound like nothing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He looked past me at Dad.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat&#8217;s his name?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I told him.<\/p>\n<p>Rick went very still.<\/p>\n<p>Then he gave me a strange little smile.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat didn&#8217;t sound like nothing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou booked the north point?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFull day.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd he doesn&#8217;t know?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNo. He used to talk about it when I was a kid. I wanted to finally take him somewhere he could never afford back then.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Then he gave me a strange little smile.<\/p>\n<p>Rick looked toward Dad again.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cRight,\u201d he said quietly. \u201cLet&#8217;s see what he says.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I should have asked what that meant.<\/p>\n<p>We started loading our gear.<\/p>\n<p>Dad barely spoke.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLet&#8217;s see what he says.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>At first I thought he was overwhelmed.<\/p>\n<p>Then I noticed he wasn&#8217;t looking at the boat.<\/p>\n<p>He was looking toward the far end of the marina, where an old dirt trail disappeared between the trees.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Dad?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hm?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dad barely spoke.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You okay?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yeah.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You don&#8217;t look excited.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m excited.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You look like you&#8217;re waiting for dental work.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He gave me a tired smile.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You don&#8217;t look excited.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Rick untied one of the ropes.<\/p>\n<p>Then Dad said, &#8220;Can I ask you something?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Rick stopped.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Sure.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Could we go somewhere else?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Can I ask you something?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I stared at him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI know you planned all this,\u201d Dad said. \u201cAnd I appreciate it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThen what&#8217;s wrong?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He looked past the boat toward the dirt trail.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Could we go somewhere else?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI&#8217;d rather go to our old spot.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe bank?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He nodded.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDad, this is the north point. You talked about fishing out there my entire childhood.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>That finally got a laugh out of him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI&#8217;d rather go to our old spot.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI really oversold that story.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat are you talking about?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>His smile disappeared.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don&#8217;t think I ever said I wanted to fish there.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I stared at him. I&#8217;d planned this trip so I could finally fulfill my dad&#8217;s dream of fishing at the north point, and now he was saying that wasn&#8217;t what he wanted at all.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t understand.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat are you talking about?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou talked about it constantly.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen you were eight.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cExactly.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad looked toward the trail again.<\/p>\n<p>Then he sat on the wooden bench beside the dock.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCome here. There&#8217;s something I need to explain to you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou talked about it constantly.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I sat beside him.<\/p>\n<p>Rick stayed near the boat, pretending to check something.<\/p>\n<p>Dad stared at the water.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou remember asking me why we never took one of these boats?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSure.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCome here. There&#8217;s something I need to explain to you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou were probably seven. You asked me three times one morning.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSounds like me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad smiled, but it didn&#8217;t last.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAfterward, while you were messing around near the water, I came over here and asked the man running the marina what a half-day boat rental cost.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSounds like me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He rubbed his palms together.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI knew before he finished talking that I couldn&#8217;t afford it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Something tightened in my stomach.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI told him it was for my boy. Told him you saw all these boats and probably thought your dad was choosing not to take you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDad\u2014\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI knew before he finished talking that I couldn&#8217;t afford it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cLet me finish. He didn&#8217;t give me money. Didn&#8217;t offer me a discount. I&#8217;m glad he didn&#8217;t.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad pointed toward the trail.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe showed me that spot under the oak trees. Told me what bait to use and when the fish came close to shore.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Then Dad smiled.<\/p>\n<p>Dad pointed toward the trail.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd he told me, \u2018Your boy&#8217;s not going to remember whether you had a boat. He&#8217;s going to remember that you got up before sunrise to spend the morning with him.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Behind us, Rick stopped moving.<\/p>\n<p>Dad hadn&#8217;t noticed.<\/p>\n<p>I had.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Your boy&#8217;s not going to remember whether you had a boat.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAnd you believed him?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad laughed once.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNot at first.\u201d He looked down at his hands. \u201cFor years, I still wished I could give you more. You&#8217;d talk about some kid going to Disney World or getting a new bike, and I&#8217;d feel about two inches tall.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe were fine.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI know that now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNot at first.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He smiled at me.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBecause every morning I&#8217;d wake you up to go fishing, half the time you were waiting by the door before I finished making the sandwiches.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou took forever.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPrecise peanut-butter ratios.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I laughed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI know that now.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad&#8217;s eyes filled.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou talked the whole drive. Fish, school, dinosaurs, girls, God. Whatever was in your head.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat sounds exhausting.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was.\u201d He smiled. \u201cI loved it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Then he looked toward the old trail.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was.\u201d He smiled. \u201cI loved it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEventually I realized that man was right. I wasn&#8217;t failing to give you something better.\u201d Dad looked at me. \u201cI already had exactly what I wanted.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Behind us, Rick said quietly, \u201cHis name was Walter.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad turned.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What did you say?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Rick had come closer.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEventually I realized that man was right.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe man who told you that,\u201d he said. \u201cHis name was Walter.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad stared at him.<\/p>\n<p>Rick swallowed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe was my father.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For a second, Dad didn&#8217;t move. Then his eyes narrowed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe was my father.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou&#8217;re that Rick?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rick smiled.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou remember me?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou used to sweep the docks.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAmong other glamorous duties.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad looked from Rick to the marina office and back again.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou remember me?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy God.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>They shook hands, but then Rick pulled Dad into a hug.<\/p>\n<p>When they stepped apart, Rick looked at Dad.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy father remembered you. All his life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad blinked.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy father remembered you. All his life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe talked about you years later.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rick smiled.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe saw plenty of fathers come through here with expensive boats and expensive gear. Some barely spoke to their kids.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe talked about you years later.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad looked down.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut he remembered the maintenance guy who couldn&#8217;t afford a boat and kept showing up before sunrise with his boy anyway.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad shook his head.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI was just trying.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Some barely spoke to their kids.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI know,\u201d Rick said. \u201cThat&#8217;s what he admired.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dad didn&#8217;t answer.<\/p>\n<p>For the first time that morning, he looked like he had no joke ready.<\/p>\n<p>Neither did I.<\/p>\n<p>I looked at the white fishing boat.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat&#8217;s what he admired.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Then at Dad.<\/p>\n<p>Then at the dirt trail disappearing between the trees.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cRick?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYeah?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCan we cancel the charter?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He had no joke ready.<\/p>\n<p>Dad frowned.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou paid for it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don&#8217;t care.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou should.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I looked at him.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo you still have those lawn chairs?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCan we cancel the charter?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>His mouth twitched.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey&#8217;re in my garage.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOf course they are.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGood chairs.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey&#8217;re older than I am.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat just proves how good they are.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey&#8217;re older than I am.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rick laughed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI&#8217;ll take care of the charter,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Then he disappeared into the marina office and returned with a small paper bag.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What&#8217;s this?&#8221; Dad asked.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Bait.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Dad looked inside.<\/p>\n<p>Then he disappeared into the marina office and returned with a small paper bag.<\/p>\n<p>His eyebrows went up.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The same kind?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My dad&#8217;s recommendation hasn&#8217;t changed.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So we drove back to Dad&#8217;s house.<\/p>\n<p>We got the chairs.<\/p>\n<p>Then we returned to the lake and walked the old trail.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My dad&#8217;s recommendation hasn&#8217;t changed.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The trees had grown thicker. 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