{"id":5962,"date":"2026-08-01T21:59:24","date_gmt":"2026-08-01T21:59:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebspaces.com\/?p=5962"},"modified":"2026-08-01T21:59:24","modified_gmt":"2026-08-01T21:59:24","slug":"a-police-officer-knocked-on-my-door-and-asked-why-my-car-was-at-a-cemetery-all-night","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebspaces.com\/?p=5962","title":{"rendered":"A Police Officer Knocked on My Door and Asked Why My Car Was at a Cemetery All Night"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A police officer came to my door asking why my SUV had spent the entire night in a cemetery. I laughed, convinced he had the wrong house, until one simple question made me look at my husband differently for the first time.<\/p>\n<p>The knock at my front door came just after breakfast, while I was rinsing coffee mugs in the kitchen sink. My husband, Ethan, was in the living room answering work emails.<\/p>\n<p>It was an ordinary Tuesday, and I expected to see a delivery driver or one of our neighbors.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, a uniformed police officer stood on my porch.<\/p>\n<p>I immediately wondered whether something had happened to my blue SUV. I had driven it for almost four years. Maybe someone had hit it or stolen the license plates.<\/p>\n<p>Neither possibility prepared me for what came next.<\/p>\n<p>The officer nodded politely.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Good morning, ma&#8217;am. Are you Maia?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m Officer Ben.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>His expression was calm but serious.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Do you own the blue SUV parked in your driveway?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I do.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He glanced at his notebook.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ma&#8217;am&#8230; why was your car parked at Green Meadows Cemetery from 11:40 p.m. until almost five this morning?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I laughed because I thought he had the wrong address.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m sorry?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Your vehicle was recorded there last night.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No,&#8221; I said. &#8220;You&#8217;ve definitely got the wrong person. My car had been sitting in my driveway all night. My husband and I watched a movie, went to bed around 11, and neither of us left the house.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I pointed through the front window. &#8220;There it is.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Officer Ben stepped off the porch and examined the rear license plate. He checked it twice before looking back at me.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Same plate. Same vehicle.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My smile disappeared.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s impossible.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He returned to the porch.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Could I ask you a few questions?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Of course.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Behind me, I heard Ethan approaching.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What&#8217;s going on?&#8221; he asked.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The officer thinks my SUV was at Green Meadows Cemetery last night.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ethan looked amused.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The cemetery?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Officer Ben nodded.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We have surveillance footage showing the vehicle entering at 11:40 p.m. It left at approximately 4:56 this morning.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ethan chuckled.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Well, someone&#8217;s made a mistake.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The registration matches this address,&#8221; Officer Ben replied.<\/p>\n<p>Ethan folded his arms. &#8220;Maybe someone cloned our plates.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The explanation sounded reasonable. People stole identities. Why not license plates?<\/p>\n<p>Officer Ben did not argue.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s possible.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Then, something surfaced in my memory.<\/p>\n<p>For the past month, Ethan had insisted on taking my SUV whenever he ran errands.<\/p>\n<p>We had always shared our vehicles, so I had never questioned it. Recently, however, it had become automatic.<\/p>\n<p>If he needed groceries, prescriptions, or something from the hardware store, he took my SUV.<\/p>\n<p>Every time, he had an explanation.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My truck needs gas.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yours is easier to park.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I think my battery is getting weak.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My truck is making a funny noise.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Each excuse had sounded reasonable on its own.<\/p>\n<p>Together, they felt different.<\/p>\n<p>Officer Ben broke the silence.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Has anyone else had access to your keys recently?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I glanced at Ethan.<\/p>\n<p>Before I could answer, he spoke.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Officer Ben slowly nodded. Then, he pulled a phone from inside his jacket and looked directly at me.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I think you should see the video I have.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The recording was grainy.<\/p>\n<p>Green Meadows Cemetery appeared deserted. The timestamp read 11:40 p.m.<\/p>\n<p>A blue SUV rolled through the gate.<\/p>\n<p>I recognized it immediately.<\/p>\n<p>My stomach dropped.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I could not finish.<\/p>\n<p>Officer Ben enlarged the image. The license plate matched mine.<\/p>\n<p>I stared at Ethan.<\/p>\n<p>He leaned closer.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I mean&#8230; it looks like ours.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It is yours,&#8221; Officer Ben replied.<\/p>\n<p>The SUV disappeared deeper into the cemetery.<\/p>\n<p>The next clip showed it leaving at 4:56 a.m. The camera angle did not reveal the driver&#8217;s face.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There has to be another explanation,&#8221; I said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We&#8217;re trying to determine that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Why are you investigating this?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Officer Ben hesitated.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;A groundskeeper arrived shortly after five. He found signs that someone had visited a grave overnight.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Visited?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The flowers had been replaced, and the soil beside the headstone had been disturbed.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That doesn&#8217;t sound illegal.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The cemetery gates are closed to vehicles overnight. Digging around a grave without authorization may also be treated as vandalism until the circumstances are clear.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My heartbeat quickened.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Disturbed how?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We&#8217;re still determining that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He gave me his card.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If you remember anything unusual, call me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>After he left, Ethan shut the door harder than necessary.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Well,&#8221; he said with a forced laugh, &#8220;that was bizarre.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You really think someone cloned my plates?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It happens.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But why would they go to a cemetery?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He shrugged. &#8220;Who knows?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He sounded casual.<\/p>\n<p>Too casual.<\/p>\n<p>I had been married to Ethan for almost six years. Usually, I could tell what he was thinking.<\/p>\n<p>That morning, he avoided my eyes.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I wouldn&#8217;t worry about it,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I wasn&#8217;t worried until ten minutes ago.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;ll blow over.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I wanted to believe him.<\/p>\n<p>That afternoon, I searched my SUV. The seats were clean, and there was no mud on the floor mats.<\/p>\n<p>The glove compartment held only the insurance papers, registration, and flashlight.<\/p>\n<p>The center console contained loose change, sunglasses, and tissues.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing was unusual.<\/p>\n<p>Still, something felt wrong.<\/p>\n<p>When I returned inside, Ethan smiled at me from his laptop.<\/p>\n<p>That smile usually made me feel safe.<\/p>\n<p>That day, it made me uneasy.<\/p>\n<p>Over the next three days, life tried to return to normal.<\/p>\n<p>Officer Ben did not call.<\/p>\n<p>Ethan acted as though the incident had been forgotten.<\/p>\n<p>He even joked, &#8220;Maybe your SUV likes ghost tours.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I forced a smile.<\/p>\n<p>It was not funny anymore.<\/p>\n<p>On Friday afternoon, my sister, Nora, stopped by with banana bread.<\/p>\n<p>She took one look at me.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You look exhausted.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I haven&#8217;t been sleeping.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I told her about the officer, the cemetery, and the video.<\/p>\n<p>When I finished, she frowned.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So someone drove your SUV there?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Apparently.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ethan still thinks someone cloned the plates?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She stirred sugar into her tea.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Does he usually drive your SUV?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Recently.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;How recently?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;For about a month.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Several times?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Several times a week.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She glanced toward the driveway.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That seems convenient.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Do you trust him?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The question stung.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Completely?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I hesitated.<\/p>\n<p>Nora squeezed my hand.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m not trying to make you suspicious, but something doesn&#8217;t add up.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Before I could answer, my phone buzzed.<\/p>\n<p>Unknown number.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This is Maia.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ma&#8217;am, this is Officer Ben.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My pulse quickened.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Did you find something?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We did. I&#8217;d rather discuss it in person.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If possible, today.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Is it serious?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>There was a pause.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yes,&#8221; he replied. &#8220;I also think you should come alone.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Officer Ben was waiting in an interview room when I arrived.<\/p>\n<p>He gestured toward the chair across from him. &#8220;Thank you for coming.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You said you found something?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We did. First, I want to reassure you that we no longer believe a crime took place.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What about the disturbed soil?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The groundskeeper thought someone had tampered with a grave. The cemetery manager later determined that only the flower bed had been disturbed.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I released a breath.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So, what happened?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Officer Ben slid a photograph across the table.<\/p>\n<p>It showed a granite headstone surrounded by white lilies.<\/p>\n<p>The name carved into it was Lena.<\/p>\n<p>Below it were the words, &#8220;Beloved Mother-to-Be.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What does this have to do with me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The groundskeeper found a waterproof tin beneath the flowers. The cemetery permits approved keepsake containers, but he did not know whether this one belonged there.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Officer Ben paused.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It contained photographs, handwritten letters, an engagement ring, and ultrasound images. Ethan&#8217;s name was on the envelopes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A strange heaviness settled over me.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Who was Lena?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>His voice softened.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;She was Ethan&#8217;s fianc\u00e9e.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The room seemed to shrink.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He was engaged before me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And she was pregnant?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He nodded.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;She died?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There was a car accident several years ago. Neither Lena nor the baby survived.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I swallowed hard.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I never knew.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He placed another photograph before me. It showed a younger Ethan with his arm around a pregnant woman.<\/p>\n<p>They looked happy.<\/p>\n<p>Not posed. Not uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>Happy.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve been married to him for almost six years.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m sorry.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So, why was he there all night?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The groundskeeper found fresh flowers, a cleaned headstone, and a new letter. It appears Ethan spent several hours there before replacing the tin.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So all of this happened because he was visiting them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I closed my eyes.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But why lie to me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I can&#8217;t answer that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Neither could I.<\/p>\n<p>When I reached home, Ethan was standing outside.<\/p>\n<p>The moment he saw my face, his shoulders stiffened.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You talked to the officer.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I did.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He did not ask what I had learned.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Who was Lena?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The color drained from his face.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They told you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They found the letters.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He lowered his head.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I should&#8217;ve told you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When? Before we got married?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He said nothing.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When we were dating?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Still nothing.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;When, Ethan?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You don&#8217;t know?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I wanted to tell you during the first few months. Then it felt too heavy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So you waited.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He nodded.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Then we got engaged.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Another nod.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Then we got married.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And every year after that, it became harder.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>His eyes met mine.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I wasn&#8217;t trying to deceive you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But you did.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He closed his eyes.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Tell me everything.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We sat at the kitchen table where we had celebrated birthdays, planned vacations, and talked about having children.<\/p>\n<p>Ethan took a long breath.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I met Lena when I was 22. We were together for almost four years.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You were engaged.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And she was pregnant.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Almost seven months.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He looked at his hands.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;She and her sister were driving to visit their parents. A drunk driver crossed the center line.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The baby didn&#8217;t survive.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And Lena?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They couldn&#8217;t save her.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Silence settled between us.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I spent a long time learning how to keep living,&#8221; he said. &#8220;Eventually, I moved here. Then I met you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And you never told me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I wanted you to know me as the man I had become.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I married all of you, Ethan, not just the parts you thought were easier.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>His eyes filled with tears.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I took a breath.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The officer asked whether anyone else had access to my keys. You answered for me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I panicked.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You didn&#8217;t want me thinking about your trips.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So you&#8217;ve been borrowing my SUV because of the cemetery?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He nodded.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My truck is loud.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I frowned.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The exhaust has been rattling,&#8221; he explained. &#8220;If I started it after you went to bed, you would&#8217;ve heard it from the bedroom.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So you took mine.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You never woke up when I started your SUV.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Every excuse suddenly made sense.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My truck needs gas.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Your SUV is easier to park.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My battery seems weak.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>One lie after another.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;How many times did you go?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Four times this month.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Why so often?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The anniversary was coming. I kept trying to finish the letter. Sometimes I drove there and sat in the parking area without getting out.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I wasn&#8217;t trying to hold on to my former life,&#8221; he continued. &#8220;I said goodbye years ago. I still visit because Lena and the baby existed, and I want to pay my respects.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I understand that.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He looked surprised.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t blame you for remembering them. I blame you for deciding your wife couldn&#8217;t be trusted with the truth.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>His face crumpled.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I was trying to avoid hurting you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You made that decision for me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That evening, Ethan&#8217;s older sister, Claire, came to the house.<\/p>\n<p>She looked anxiously between us.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I came as soon as Ethan called.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I faced her.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You knew.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She lowered her eyes.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I thought you did. Ethan said he was going to tell you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So everyone assumed I already knew.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m so sorry, Maia.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Did your parents know he hadn&#8217;t told me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t think they realized. None of us did.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>His sister knew. His parents knew. His oldest friends probably knew.<\/p>\n<p>I was the only one excluded from the truth.<\/p>\n<p>Claire turned to Ethan.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You should have told her.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No,&#8221; she said firmly. &#8220;Maia should not have learned this from a police officer.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ethan lowered his head.<\/p>\n<p>Her words did not repair my marriage, but they mattered.<\/p>\n<p>Someone else had finally said plainly that what he had done was wrong.<\/p>\n<p>The next morning, Ethan packed an overnight bag.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ll stay with Claire.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I nodded.<\/p>\n<p>Before leaving, he stopped beside the door.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I never loved you less because I visited them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I wasn&#8217;t holding on to Lena.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I said goodbye to that life years ago. But saying goodbye doesn&#8217;t mean pretending they never existed.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Tears blurred my vision.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I never wanted you to pretend. I wanted you to trust me enough to tell me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>His shoulders slumped.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I would&#8217;ve stood beside you at that grave,&#8221; I said. &#8220;I would&#8217;ve brought flowers. You wouldn&#8217;t have carried that grief alone.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He covered his face.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I know.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But instead, you carried a secret and made me part of it without my knowledge.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m sorry.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I believe you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t expect you to forgive me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I can&#8217;t answer that today.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Before he left, I stopped him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Your family needs to know why you&#8217;re moving out. I won&#8217;t let anyone think I threw you out because you visited Lena.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ll tell them everything.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That evening, Ethan called his parents and Claire.<\/p>\n<p>He admitted that he had hidden Lena and the baby throughout our marriage. He told them I had never objected to his visits and that the separation was the consequence of his dishonesty.<\/p>\n<p>No one blamed me.<\/p>\n<p>No one defended him.<\/p>\n<p>For once, Ethan carried the full weight of his own decision.<\/p>\n<p>Three weeks later, I drove to Green Meadows Cemetery alone.<\/p>\n<p>The cemetery was peaceful in the daylight.<\/p>\n<p>I found Lena&#8217;s grave and placed flowers beside the headstone.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I didn&#8217;t know you,&#8221; I whispered. &#8220;But I wish I&#8217;d known about you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I stood there for another moment. 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